Learning

One of the best teachers in life is not finding things out for yourself, but learning from the experiences of those that have come before you.

The end of a fantasy love can be devastating and will most likely end in heartbreak, separation/divorce, monetary loss and ruin. Be smart, be realistic; recognize and accept fantasy impulses as something that one must learn to live WITH and not live BY. Sadly, people tend to follow their hearts, but in time they realize the fantasy wasn’t all that wonderful in the first place. Remind yourself that you are supposed to live a REAL life and that a great fantasy is just that: A FANTASY.